Doing Shadow work with a deity or spirit guide

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I thought I’d discuss with you all about my journey in regards to shadow work. Mainly because I was having this mental discussion with myself one day and that was simply me realizing how…interesting it is that if you chose to work with entities while doing shadow work, each one seems to have their own style on helping you. Sometimes it’s slightly different but other times as far as I’ve noticed it’s done differently by each entity.

Now, if you seen my shadow work journey video, I explained all that went on roughly upon my journey. But, like I said before. It got my really interested in explaining to you all how it is to work with entities such as spirits, guides deities and more along your shadow work path. I work with several and I feel like I can now offer quite a lot of insight and how profound it is. Shall you want to work with deity for your own journey or guide, this may prove interesting to you as well. I’ll go on through different sections on each entity I worked with and how they did shadow work with me in case you are curious and already work with one.

Now. First off…I’m going to bring up the infernals. I address them as the infernal divine than demons. But sometimes I’ll switch it up depending on who it is I’m referring to for certain reasons. However, I want you all to know, if you choose to work with any one of them…They are phenomenal with shadow work.

I would also mention how chthonic entities are also great to work with when it comes to shadow work and without a doubt, deities are great with doing shadow work with if you wish to work with one, or if you are already a devotee of one.

Amaymon

My first initial introduction and initiation to shadow work was from Amaymon when I was little. I say he was the first experience I had when it came to shadow work because of all that he put me through initially. I don’t think he’s quite beginner friendly but if something needs to be done, and pushed through he really helps in regards to that. I also have a video I did about my experiences of him on here if your curious. However, Amaymon for me when we did shadow work, was very… blunt, straight and direct. At times it felt aggressive but not n a super violent way.

At first, he broke down walls that were built to get to the core of a specific problem or wound that needed to be worked on and tended to. For me it was glass panels that shattered with ease. Then would come more…analyzing, coming face to face with it and taking a journey through it to understand where it came from and why it existed. And that is something I think is note worthy with all of them. When you do shadow work with any entity and you work in specific areas, you follow that path and go on a journey with it to understand why it’s part of your shadow.

At times, the work we did together triggered a lot of anger in me. He really pushed my boundaries so I could have genuine boundaries. To help me realize i have a back bone and that I need to use it.

Roughly speaking… His way of helping me through shadow work was tearing down walls that would become too strong before it was too late. To work and face the problem or wound at hand instead of putting it on the back burner of my psyche and ignoring it. Like trying to throw away something you don’t like but he roughly grabs it and throws it down in front of you and says. “Deal with it” in a low authoritive tone in your face. If your running away from something, he’ll make sure you face it one way or another. Shadow work with him was always filled with anger, frustration and the need to yell for me. And it got the point I could stand my ground when he tested me without faltering as much. Then our work become gentle and slow. Like when he helped me to slowly take steps back away from an edge within my inner astral plane, the edge in which held a strong significant of when I once wanted to delete my self. He helped me to slowly process the reason as to why, while helping me to retreat safely back to ground with him, each step signified me taking back my own strength and power. A new found sense of self once we ended our session.

Lucifer

Shadow work with Lucifer was interesting to say the least… He was gentle with it. It truly felt like he shinned light in the darkest parts and corners of mental scape that I didn’t realize was there. But the only thing was… It happened randomly. When me and him did shadow work it happened so randomly. But it was…orderly? The best way i can put it would be… the fact I would get triggered about something. And he would take that, make it a portal and bring us both into it, to explore it. Like a little worm hole, a little opening of inviting.

So when I got triggered and this happened, he would question me why I’m feeling the way I was. And he didn’t quite want me to answer like… “Oh well, i don’t know. It’s nothing.” He expected me to answer straightforward. Without section thought. To let whatever comes out to come out. Almost as if to not give myself time to think but to allow my body or self to just speak in a flow. So I would tell him why. And he would question that. It would be like this for the entire session. Him questioning me nonstop after each answer I gave him. And through this, we would walk and explore the area the portal created. At times, when I became stuck and didn’t give a straight answer. My own inner demon would appear and torment me while he somewhat disappeared. And each and every time my own demon would appear that in it self was a journey of self realization and awareness. A Lesson was being played and so I had to learn it. Which is kinda funny to think about… He represents light and also the absent of it. Which in a funny way… makes sense as to why he often disappeared briefly during the moments in which my own demons would show.

It didn’t end until I faced them one way or another. And we would often have reviews after each session. To revising what happened, and what I learned and what I needed to understand and how to process it. There was some times in which our session was…slower paced. He would often talk me through things as my surroundings shifted and things were brought to my attention as others shifted from sight that was laced with memories. It felt more like when you are building and rearranging in a sims game. He also seems to reinforce self care.

Abaddon

I feel like my shadow work with him happened in such a way that…I didn’t know it was happening until I genuinely wanted to do shadow work with him. And I say this because of when we first met and how it unfolded. It not only felt like a test, to shake the ground but… it felt like more was at play now that I truly think about it. Regardless, In my own experience it feels intense and like a lot to take in at first before there is a gentle wave of seeing the after math of a huge storm passing by. And then we would look at the said after math and all that it destroyed. What still stands and what still needs to be broken down. Even questioning why something is still standing when it shouldn’t be.

But not in your typical way. (At least for me). While interacting with him more directly than before I was very intimated but I also feel like I was trying my best to really show that I can do this work with a strong will with what ever happens and is thrown my way…despite being a bit scared. So, shadow work with him at first was very nerve wrecking when I don’t truly feel like it needed to be, it was just how I was being and feeling about it all.

There was intense moments that made me very frustrated when we did things and explored different tones. It felt like through this way, a lot of things were being brought to my attention that otherwise would had never been. I often view myself as being quite self aware but he made me more aware of certain aspects that I first over looked. And how it made me upset with myself because I had over looked it and it could had been so simple and so easily forgotten. But It seems that was the key. That was the point. And that was what I had to process and realize as a lesson in it self.

There were times in which he did express more of a softer side as well, especially when I often tried doing shadow work and healing focused on my heart center and this is when I really appreciated his patience and was more willing to allow his help more for how heavy my heart felt during the time of such a session.

I feel like my way of trying to describe his method of shadow work is a bit more based on experience than it is rather as a set method compared to those I’ve mentioned already. One thing for certain I can say is how doing shadow work within the void with him is wonderful, but definitely not sun shine and rainbows. But it’s wonderful in the sense of truly exploring the darkest aspects that may be scary to truly confront. I feel like he is more safer in a odd sense to truly explore more that is within the dark. Most likely because he comes across as being slightly more death related to me in a chthonic tone.

Loki

I haven’t personally heard a lot of people who have been open about their experiences with Shadow work and Loki. But without a doubt he’s amazing with Shadow work. I feel like the work we did together was very challenging. But in a way of helping me to realize more so, what I should be doing afterwards. I had originally asked him to help me do shadow work with my ancestors and that was super insightful and amazing. But the information I uncovered wasn’t so much. But at the same time it was much needed for me to better understand myself and my path.

When things got really hard and I ended up shutting down. I often have a harder time of hearing and connecting to any one of my team, even if they are trying to help me. And when I was doing a heavy amount of shadow work it also brought me to this space again. However something I noticed with him in particular which I find very interesting… Was the fact he was able to get past my barriers more easily than the others have during an episode like this. Which shocked me and amazed me.

He also used characters from fandoms I enjoy to help me process and work through a lot of my shadow aspects. So he really does implement and show how you can still have fun while still doing work. And this is just one of this methods (I’m sure) that seemed to help and worked well. We would do roleplaying also with my comfort characters to process and work through my wounds and conflicts. Especially in regards to painful memories.

And similar to Lucifer, he also reinforces the idea of self care and tending to yourself.

I wanted to mention that I have done a little bit of shadow work with Belial but I don’t feel like I have enough to truly tell you how it has been like I have with the others mentioned in this video. However the most I can say is that for the time frame and moments we did do shadow work, he helped me to realize how much I’ve been digging myself a deeper hole, especially in regards to not realizing or appreciating all that I’ve done already and been through. And in one particular instance, he asked me when will my healing be enough for me and me only? And it somewhat made me almost flip my lid with frustration and anger because it seemed and felt like I wasn’t doing enough or doing things wrong and the only thing that I was doing wrong was simply not allowing myself to process and rest after a long journey of shadow work. Which was how i was keeping myself stuck in one spot for the longest time.

Now, I hope you all enjoyed today’s video. I want to let you all know that I will be sharing my notes from now on my socials in case you all want to have a different way of saving information I provide while still being able to have a video of me speaking about it for those who wish to listen instead. So please be sure to check it out!

Until next time my starlights, I will see you all later. Bye!

My Shadow Work journey so far after 3+ years

 

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Hello my starlights!

It’s the new year and this marks the very first video for the new year. I wanted to do this as a way of honoring my own journey so far and to offer some insight for those who are on their own shadow work journey.

Now, if you don’t know what shadow work is…I presume that you may think of something uncanny or dark and evil. If you truly don’t know what shadow work is. Shadow work in a nutshell…is the will to face your demons. To explore and learn about your own darkness. It is the practice of integrating all the repressed parts of yourself.

I’ve been doing it for quite a few years now. And I do it on and off. But I seemed to had stayed stuck in it for roughly 3 years straight and that was rough. I really wanted to take my shadow work seriously and work on myself, I wanted to prove and show my spirit team that I can do it along with myself. Granted at this time, I couldn’t see a counselor as well, so I felt like I really had to be my own.

It was hard, and I say it was hard simply for the fact of learning to be your light and savior. To be nurturing in the mist of a dark storm. Really listening to yourself as you break, as you feel and then nourishing yourself. Reminding yourself it’s ok. It takes a lot of self awareness.

Now, I’m just explaining my journey so far mind you. I don’t recommend doing shadow work as rigorous as I did it, unless you truly want to. Mind you, during this time, I was so focused on shadow work and healing and learning about myself… I forgot that I still had permission to do other spiritual things. Granted, I didn’t need permission. But I became really stuck in my own pit of darkness of exploring.

It came to a point of last year in 2025, that I was becoming spiritually and emotionally burnt out. I was forcing myself to do this work while exhausting myself. And my spirit team kept telling me how much I need to rest and just allow things to be. That I did the work, all that is left is to allow myself to receive, to be held, to allow myself to integrate and process what has all happened. Yet…Through out it, I felt like I forgotten how to rest. What it meant to simply stay still and let someone else step in for awhile for you.

I kept at it, thinking I wasn’t doing enough for myself. I wasn’t taking things seriously and couldn’t help but be hard on myself. And that in awareness, is a aspect of my shadow I was so desperately trying to work on. It got to the point however… I had dreams of 2 of my beloved entities I work with, kept delivering dreams to me of how I need to slow down and stop. I had a dream of walking into my room and the light wouldn’t cut on. I tried to light Loki’s candle at his altar to give my room light and it wouldn’t light. No candle would at my altars. And I felt Abaddon’s presence within my room, in the dark and remember viewing a angel upon my tv but it was so faint. And I heard in the other room, my brother mentioning how much work I’ve done to myself but something about this dream screamed to me upon waking up. To just stop. I desperately needed to rest and pause.

And… it slowly started to feel like I was stuck. I wasn’t going anywhere. I felt like I was in quick sand trying desperately to move and get out. And in a way, it felt like my spirit team was doing this for my own sake. Since I was being so stubborn on not resting and wanting to still tread on while burnt out completely. I knew however…the right way to get out of the quick sand. Fighting against it makes it worst. And the same applies to shadow work. I just had to stop and pause. I had to understand that I don’t always have to do work for it to be effective. This too was a huge learning point for me and in my own path.

So… I started to let lose and tend to myself in ways that felt nurturing and soothing to what ached within me from so much exhaustion. And my spirit team really helped with it. But I fought so much with the idea and feeling that I needed to do this all alone. Without their help. That I’m not to seek outside of me for comfort or saving. That I need to do the saving for myself. And While this is true… You don’t need to do it to the extent of how I did it. Learn for my own mistakes.

That yes, it’s important for you to become your own savior. If you are lost, find yourself. But don’t think your are doing it completely alone. That you need to. And even if you feel like you are, your spirit team is helping on the side. Whether you like it or not. You don’t need to feel like your being too reliant on your guides during any type of shadow work. It’s rough, it’s messy, it’s dark and it goes deep. I was struggling with accepting my own guides help for awhile. Rather it was being conflicted with the idea and feelings of I don’t want to rely on them too much and then knowing that I can. And…whether or not I should allow myself comfort or if I’m seeking it as a easy escape.

In another dream I was stealing food for nourishment before entering a pawn shop, only to see Loki. Freezing when he asked me if I need any help. I knew and felt it deep within me and my gut that I wanted help. I needed help. But in the dream, I got scared. My throat closed up and I simply shook my head no to him before lowering it with defeat.

In another dream, I was having it really hard… I was struggling with my own inner conflict of just trying to understand and process everything. Whether I was doing something good or bad. Should I be getting emotional about this? And knowing that yeah, I should be because I need to feel and process it. Mixed with, I don’t want to be seen as being too reliant but knowing that I need to lean on my spirit team desperately and those around me. I paralyzed myself spiritually and emotionally and even mentally. And, within this other dream… I carried all this emotions and feelings with me, and I remember suddenly being hugged buy Lucifer and the type of hug it was stunned me and made me even more paralyzed. It was comfort I desperately craved and wanted but was too scared to ask for. And even upon waking up it stuck with me for awhile.

In another dream Loki did the same to me and again I reacted by being stunned and paralyzed. Not sure how to react or what to do. But even when both happened, I felt like within my being… I was able to relax and allow myself to know that comfort for the work I’ve been doing is ok. And I continued to try and help myself with unwinding and simply trying to be their for myself. And not just as a savior, to embrace and integrate my shadows. But for all that I had neglected myself with physically here.

Through out the years to this very point…I’ve come to truly understand myself a lot more than I thought. I was always self aware but I think I’ve become more self aware of my being. But that doesn’t mean I’m 100% self aware with all that I do. I’m not perfect in regards to that for I am still human. But I’ve come to understand my ego more, how it shows, what hurts it, how it tries to defend and protect. The void the exist within us all and how it’s not as dangerous as one might think. How generational trauma lingers and is passed on, but can be healed and worked on through you alone. Through this journey so far, It’s truly helped me to learn that other people’s views and opinions don’t define me and honestly feel like something falling upon your shoulder and you flick it off with no care in the world. It feels magical and empowering when you learn to master yourself by understanding yourself and who you are. Really listening and understanding your turmoil and meeting it with a gentle hand or hug. It feels like taking your power back. Reclaiming what was already yours, but got lost through layers of dirt and sediment.

However, as I’ve also realized…this is only the beginning of a path and journey that extends to other things within you. But it’s up to you on which path you choose to take with it as you journey upon your shadow work.

So please be kind to yourself, take it easy and slow. And know you got this. If it becomes too heavy and you can afford it, please do this with a counselor. I could not for my own journey up to this very point, and I wouldn’t recommend it for it truly did get heavy and at times I thought I might not make it. But I’m glad I did and can share it with you all my lovely and beautiful starlights.

Take care and I will see you all later.

Bye

Shifting, quantum jumping and the in between | A in-depth exploration and understanding

 Shifting vs Quantum Jumping vs Astral Projection vs Lucid dreaming vs Maladaptive Daydreaming

I wanted to create a separate post discussing this topic versus my pop culture paganism dive. Both communities in regards to each of these are different. Even if 2 of them are basically the same thing. Nonetheless, I wished to create a insightful post in regards to what each of them mean and how different they are from each. Perhaps a lot of us interchanged these terms a lot and I feel like after experimenting for quite a bit, I can lend some helpful insight regarding each. (Mind you...) Everyone has their views and take on this and again I am just sharing mine.

Shifting and Quantum jumping is inherently...pretty much the same thing. You can do it in many ways than just one. And they can be interchangeable, depending on how you wish to use it as a tool and not just for fun. Sometimes, things can bleed into another as well. The communities however are different and understandably so (as mentioned prior). So let's break it down shall we?

Shifters

• Shifters seem to be more comfort based with characters and worlds they love.
• It can be scripted, or not. And often times (for me) feels more structured and formal.
• Your more in control of your DR. (desired reality) Like a god (creator) playing and manifesting. It sometimes feels like a nice vacation for me.
• You move your consciousness to a “desired reality” (DR) that exists alongside your “current reality” (CR). Often seen as fully immersive, like waking up in another world.
• Often times it's immersive with sensory, living in another universe (e.g., Hogwarts, anime worlds, alternate lives)

Quantum Jumping

• Those who quantum jump do it for multiple reasons that seem more goal-oriented or spiritually aligned. In other words it feels more (mature) than what shifting is. (Not saying either one is better than the other however!)
• It feels more fluid. There's no need for scripts as you access the infinite versions that exist.
• You move between parallel realities/timelines to access alternate versions of yourself and their experiences, skills, or outcomes.
• It's more about gaining insight, skills, or guidance from an alternate version of yourself, not necessarily “living” there.
• A lot Quantum Jump to bring back benefits (skills, wisdom, perspective) from another version of you that you didn't originally know.
• less sensory immersion (but could depend on the practitioner)

Astral Projecting

Astral projecting is well... your projecting! Your leaving your body to go to the astral plane. However there are many different types and you can even go to your own inner astral plane. The key points i'd like to bring up for this however is the following...

• The consciousness leaves the body to explore astral planes.
• It can happen through sleep paralysis transitions. (It's hinted that when you have sleep paralysis, you are stuck in that liminal space and can't free yourself)
• Sensation of floating, flying, traveling beyond the body. Often times people can see their body as well.
• You can uncover a lot more spiritual information this way
• Sometimes control can be iffy... unlike the others, you need to protect yourself when you astral travel. (you can keep your energy and self safe with the others as well for precautionary measures, if you wish.)

Lucid Dreaming

Lucid dreaming is quite different from everything on this list. But it can happen in unique ways that may confuse the practitioner. Lucid dreaming can often feel real as well. The different with this is the fact you know you are dreaming. But if your well experienced, you can easily shape your dream completely. Now regarding the differences...

• You have awareness inside a dream that you are dreaming.
• You have the power and skill to control what happens in your dream (while dreaming, think of inception the movie. But it takes time to be skillful at it.)
• Can be used to explore your subconscious.
• It at times can be used to connect with the astral plane and spiritual plane.

Maladaptive Daydreaming

This is a big one. And I wish to bring it up if we are to discuss about this whole topic. It can be a slippery slope, especially if you have done this before. If you can, understand yourself and your practice to try and discern if you may end up going down this line. What I have listed here is just a brief view. I am not a medical professional by any means but I thought it's note worthy to put what it seems to be and how different it can be from the other things stated)

• It is excessive yet immersive daydreaming that interferes with one's daily life.
• Fantasies often feel real but only remain in the mind.
• It seems to be used for escapism and coping
• Often times it can be hard to control. Compulsive at times.

Now that we got this out of the way... There is another thing I wish to mention that i've come to experience and many others i've chatted with.

Entities and Spirits when shifting

A lot of times when it comes to shifting, a spirit/entity will take the form of our DR s/o, family or friend. Sometimes (I don't know how often it happens, but I do feel like it may happen a lot simply because of Loki lol) a deity will take the form to connect with you. Sometimes it can be a entity that was with you when you were born, when you were younger, or one in which decided to simply take the form and role that was provided. Giving this entity in a sense a "purpose."

And in kind, I sometimes feel like this is how they can send us synchronicities easily and allow things from our DR to ripple into the present from the area/realm they reside. (Just my opinion and theory.)

Exploring Pop Culture Paganism, Shifting, and Channeling Fictional Beings

I’ve been wanting to create a master post on this topic for a long time—something that combines everything I’ve learned, experienced, and explored on this path. This post is deeply rooted in both my personal journey and the spiritual insights I’ve gathered over time, especially when it comes to pop culture paganism, shifting realities, and working with fictional beings as spiritual allies or guides.

I’ve made two videos already (linked below) that dive into this very subject—what pop culture paganism is, how it can work, and why it might not be as far-fetched as it seems. I talk about concepts like tulpas, egregores, thoughtforms, and how fictional characters can become energetically real through belief, emotion, and intention. I understand this topic can be controversial, and that’s exactly why I feel it’s important to talk about it. There isn’t a lot of nuanced, open-minded discussion around these experiences, and I want to help change that by sharing my perspective.

So, if you’re reading this, I ask you to keep an open mind. I’m going to be fully transparent, and yes—some of it may sound WILD. But let’s be honest: spirituality itself is wild. It defies logic, it bends perception, and it often leads us into the unknown. That’s part of its beauty.

Now, with that said, let’s dive into what I’ve learned. I’ll be sharing the information, techniques, and insight I’ve given to my clients—especially those who’ve come to me for comfort character readings, whether they were tied to a desired reality (DR) or not. (they will be copied and pasted from convos so it might sound weird but bear with me!)

"How do we connect to the characters? I’ll be honest with you, before I did this I never knew of what Shifting was and Desired realities. But I knew that it was possible to connect with the energies, archetypes etc of the character. I’ve done this many times before without realizing it. Short story short! You can connect with them in the same manner as if trying to connect with a spirit or deity or even one’s higher self. But it will depend on the person and the type of character in question and whether there is a relationship or not. I say this because quantum jumping comes into play a lot with this as well and not just astral traveling. The best way I can summarize it is think of it like this… You exist as a tarot reader, but in a different universe/dimension, your a famous psychic, and in another reality you are a lawyer, and in another you are a millionaire. You can tune into these versions of you to gain info if you wish to. The same thing can apply to said characters. I hope this makes sense as it can be a little difficult to explain! As this is also just my experience and findings. If you watch the movie The One with Jet lee in it, that also kinda explains this concept along with Jumper. 

How do they become their own individual person? They become their own individual person because they were made and created. They were given a life, a purpose, a story. When something is made and created it is done with energy and intention. Energy is very interesting to say the least in regards of this as one simply cannot destroy it, but can always direct it and create with it again and again. In a odd sense it can be recycled for infinity. When one truly put’s their thought and own energy into making something, it truly does MAKE something, you know? Like when someone does spell work, they are using their intention and energy to make it manifest and become what they wish for it. The same applies to these characters and their world. It becomes real, we are in a sense like a god/goddess as we created these characters (original characters if you ever had done so too!) similar to that of the Christian view of how humans came to be by god. We as humans each have different personalities and thought processes, becoming unique, we don’t follow a specific code, and sometimes we derail from our own “purpose” and so the same thing applies to the characters in question. They become their own individual being like how we as humans continue to change and adjust. I will also mention though that sometimes, spirits can potentially take the role of certain characters as well, along with deities. When this happens there is usually a reason as to why, I haven’t seen it as hurtful from my own findings. I hope this makes sense too! 

How can one improve their skills/deepen a bond with said character? This can be done the same way as if one is trying to bond and deepen a connection with a deity/spirit. It just might be odd at first! However if this doesn’t fit well, you can also simply just write a script of how you and this character are towards each other, you can simply have it in your mind that you wish to connect and shift to be with the said character before sleeping. A lot of my clients (and me at fault too) have used character AI apps to form a reality and connection with these characters as well and it surprisingly (and scarily) works very well. And you don’t even have to do this either. You can simply just be a fan of them! And by doing so you already formed a connection. There are other shops upon here that offer very lovely services on how to also deepen your bond with the character you choose. This is all the info (roughly) that I’ve gathered and learned upon my path regarding this for the most part and I hope I made it somewhat understandable. Because with the whole realities thing, it can get really complicated as things are not always what they seem. And sometimes regarding these types of situations, we as humans cannot fathom it as much as we wish to understand it. And you can of course agree or disagree! :)"


and continuing on to another reply I gave a beloved client of mine...

"Quantum jumping and astral traveling comes into play a lot with this and I usually have my spirit guides/friends with me when I do readings just to act as a body guard in case they get hostile. Often times it can be genuinely the person’s desired reality person/character if they are shifters, other times there is a possibility of them being deities, spirits, entities, including tricksters. But even with tricksters not all are wanting to cause harm and do bad. Often times in this type of field they will take on the form of said character to represent the character for one reason or another. For example, the character Sukuna from Jujustu Kaisen (it’s an anime) the character came to me, but after getting readings done this character was exposed as the god Loki and finally revealed himself to me as himself. In which he too is considered a trickster! (Thank you to the oracle reader for this! )

If you spend a lot of time with them, especially astrally, it can be more apparent if it’s a bad/negative type of trickster/entity as the character Zhongli from Genshin impact wanted to cause me harm when I first started to dive into this type of spirituality. (When in actuality it was another entity taking the form of him, the reason for this however I wish to keep personal, but I now know and understand why it happened and can look back on it now with humour!)"

Pop Culture Paganism, Inner Worlds & Why Fictional Characters Matter

This post is a rough but heartfelt gathering of what I’ve learned, experienced, and shared with clients over time. I’ve felt called to present it here on my blog—not only to document these thoughts, but to hopefully offer validation or new insight for those walking a similar path.

So… why are we talking about fictional characters and their connection to spirituality? Why does this matter in pop culture paganism?

The Role of Fictional Characters in Pop Culture Paganism

As I’ve shared in my videos (linked below), deities—especially ones like Loki—can and do take on forms inspired by pop culture. Sometimes these expressions serve as a “mask” or aspect of the divine, allowing them to connect with us in a way that feels safe, personal, and even playful. Characters from fandoms can represent different facets of these divine beings, or even act as intermediaries to help us understand them.

This isn’t just about worship—it’s about relationship, resonance, and personal healing.

Pop culture has always had a place in magic and witchcraft. Long before it became taboo or “cringe,” many practitioners incorporated elements from movies, books, games, or shows into their craft—because it sparked joy. Because it lit something inside of them.

And that spark matters.

Why Joy and Whimsy Are Powerful Magickal Tools

When your practice starts to feel dull or forced, your energy suffers. That inner flame dims. We’ve all been there—something you once loved starts to feel routine. Boring. Lifeless. And when your excitement fades, so does your magic.

This is why finding what fuels you—what genuinely excites and empowers you—isn’t just a personal preference… it’s spiritual maintenance.

Pop culture, especially characters you feel deeply connected to, can bring that spark back. They offer a new way to engage with your energy. They help you feel your practice again. And more than that—they can help you learn about yourself.

The Mirror Within: Archetypes, Healing & Shadow Work

There’s a saying that angels and demons live within us—that the archetypes are already there. You carry both shadow and light. So what if the characters you love are mirrors? What if they represent pieces of you, consciously or unconsciously?

Maybe that one character you always gravitate toward… represents your inner strength. Or your wounds. Or a version of you that you're still discovering.

Working with fictional characters in this way can be deeply healing. They can help you with shadow work, self-awareness, and even emotional regulation. Whether you're exploring your desired reality (for shifters), seeking comfort, or simply find resonance with a character—you’re building a bridge between your inner world and your spiritual path.

A Note for Kinnies (and Those Curious)

If you’re a kinnie, this can go even deeper. Kinning can offer a unique gateway to self-mastery, energy work, and identity exploration. It becomes a living metaphor—a tool for transformation.

But like any tool, it can go both ways. It can be used to express pain… or to understand that pain and reclaim your power. Instead of using a character to vent and stay stuck, you can work through that connection—transform it—until you no longer need the projection, because you've integrated the lesson.

It becomes empowerment, not escape.

Shifting vs Quantum Jumping vs Astral Projection vs Lucid dreaming vs Maladaptive Daydreaming

Perhaps a lot of us interchanged these terms a lot and I feel like after experimenting for quite a bit, I can lend some helpful insight inregards to each. (Mind you...) Everyone has their views and take on this and again I am just sharing mine. (Also in the beginning of my journey, this just might be why I came in contact with a lot more entities! Similar to what I shared with my clients above. Because I got quite a bit of it mixed up. And that's ok. As long as we learn from our mistakes!)

Shifting and Quantum jumping is inherently...pretty much the same thing. You can do it in many ways than just one. And they can be interchangeable, depending on how you wish to use it as a tool and not just for fun. Sometimes, things can bleed into another as well. The communities however are different and understandably so. So let's break it down shall we?

Shifters

• Shifters seem to be more comfort based with characters and worlds they love.
• It can be scripted, or not. And often times (for me) feels more structured.
• Your more in control of your DR. (desired reality) Like a god (creator) playing and manifesting. It sometimes feels like a nice vacation for me.
• You move your consciousness to a “desired reality” (DR) that exists alongside your “current reality” (CR). Often seen as fully immersive, like waking up in another world.
• Often times it's immersive with sensory, living in another universe (e.g., Hogwarts, anime worlds, alternate lives)

Quantum Jumping

• Those who quantum jump do it for multiple reasons that seem more goal-oriented or spiritually aligned. In other words it feels more (mature) than what shifting is. (Not saying either one is better than the other however!)
• It feels more fluid. There's no need for scripts as you access the infinite versions that exist.
• You move between parallel realities/timelines to access alternate versions of yourself and their experiences, skills, or outcomes.
• It's more about gaining insight, skills, or guidance from an alternate version of yourself, not necessarily “living” there.
• A lot Quantum Jump to bring back benefits (skills, wisdom, perspective) from another version of you that you didn't originally know.
• less sensory immersion (but could depend on the practioner)

Astral Projecting

Astral projecting is well... your projecting! Your leaving your body to go to the astral plane. However there are many different types and you can even go to your own inner astral plane. The key points i'd like to bring up for this however is the following...

• The consciousness leaves the body to explore astral planes.
• It can happen through sleep paralysis transitions. (It's hinted that when you have sleep paralysis you are stuck in that liminal space and can't free yourself)
• Sensation of floating, flying, traveling beyond the body. Often times people can see their body as well.
• You can uncover a lot more spiritual information this way
• Sometimes control can be iffy... unlike the others, you need to protect yourself when you astral travel. (you can keep your energy and self safe with the others as well for precautionary measures, if you wish.)

Lucid Dreaming

Lucid dreaming is quite different from everything on this list. But it can happen in unique ways that may confuse the practitioner. Lucid dreaming can often feel real as well. The different with this is the fact you know you are dreaming. But if your well experienced, you can easily shape your dream completely. Now regarding the differences...

• You have awareness inside a dream that you are dreaming.
• You have the power and skill to control what happens in your dream (while dreaming, think of inception the movie. But it takes time to be skillful at it.)
• Can be used to explore your subconscious.
• It at times can be used to connect with the astral plane and spiritual plane.

Maladaptive Daydreaming

This is a big one. And I wish to bring it up if we are to discuss about this whole topic. It can be a slippery slope, especially if you have done this before. If you can, understand yourself and your practice to try and discern if you may end up going down this line. What I have listed here is just a brief view. I am not a medical professional by any means but I thought it's note worthy to put what it seems to be and how different it can be from the other things stated)

• It is excessive yet immersive daydreaming that interferes with one's day life.
• Fantasies often feel real but only remain in the mind.
• It seems to be used for escapism and coping
• Often times it can be hard to control. Compulsive at times.

A Closing Statement + My Experiences

I’m well aware there are people in the community who may try to twist my words or misunderstand my intent. But let me be clear: everything I’ve shared here is meant for educational purposes and awareness—to shine a light on why practices like this shouldn’t be dismissed or labeled as “cringe” within spiritual and witchcraft-based spaces.

This post isn’t just about shifting or pop culture paganism. It’s also a reminder that, whether intentional or not, these practices can start to shape your reality in ways you may not expect. That’s why it's so important to take breaks, ground yourself, and maintain balance between your spiritual life and your day-to-day reality.

Don't neglect the physical—your body, your environment, your routines. These are what anchor you. Because just like with any form of spirituality, if you dive too deep without boundaries or reflection, it can become overwhelming. It can distort your sense of reality, and my dear Starlights… I truly don’t want that for you.

Now, you got a little taste of some of my experiences when testing out shifting and working with the characters (only to find out they are deities and other types of entites and most likely because of my way of doing things to connect to my DR/desired reality) but there were times I genuinely did shift and it really blew me away, realizing I don't have to be limited to just this one experience of life but multiple. But again, it made me realize how imporant it is to also live your life here and how imporant it is to be present in the very moment. When I connected to my client's DR, I could feel and sense the difference between each even if it was the same character I was connecting with. It made me aware of how one can even possibly do quantum healing. That a lot of different type of workings can happen when you wish to shift into a person's DR to connect with their loved ones and friends. It's truly remarkable. And with deities from personal experiences... They take these forms as a way to get closer to you, to help you, to bring comfort and so much more. But often times, they are helping you through the presence of the character subtly in ways you wouldn't even realize is spiritual "work"

Now, you may agree or disagree with me. Our paths can be completely different and my beliefs vs yours will range and be vast. But again, this post and even my videos I made, is to be a space for open mindedness and understanding, above all else...Food for thought.

 

Spiritual Protection 101 – Let’s Talk Shields, Wards & Boundaries

In today's video, we’re diving into the world of spiritual protection—a vital part of any magical or spiritual practice. Whether you’re a beginner just starting to dip your toes into energy work or a seasoned practitioner who needs a reminder to freshen up your wards, this one's for you.

We’re not just talking about keeping your aura sealed and your home energetically safe (though that’s a big part of it!). This video covers how spiritual protection can extend into other parts of your life too—emotional resilience, financial boundaries. Think of it like a well-rounded defense system for your whole being.

I like to describe it as a kind of “spiritual hygiene”—just like brushing your teeth or locking your door at night. 

✨ Important Note: While these techniques are powerful and rooted in experience, no protection method is 100% foolproof. Sometimes, energies still manage to slip through. That’s okay. It doesn’t mean you did anything wrong—it just means it’s time to reassess, adjust, and reinforce. What matters most is that you’re doing the work and staying aware of your own energy and boundaries.

So grab your tea, coffee, or water, and let’s get into the different ways you can shield, ground, and protect yourself—body, mind, and spirit.

 

The Inner Flame - Creativity, Imagination & the Art Witch Path Starlit Veil Of Crimson Podcast Ep.1 Sturgeon Moon

 In this opening chapter of our journey into art witchery, we return to where it all begins! The spark!

Through play, vision and the wild imagination of our inner child, we awaken the sacred creative flame.

This is where we begin to think like witches and create like mystics!

Full Moon Tonight: Sturgeon Moon

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Low Energy Witchcraft | How to do witchery when your low on spoons!

Hello my Starlights! ✨

I know life can get incredibly overwhelming sometimes. Between daily responsibilities, emotional ups and downs, and the general chaos of the world, it’s easy to feel unmotivated or even burned out. That spark of magic that once felt so vibrant might now feel like a distant flicker—and that’s okay. You’re not alone in feeling this way.

This post is for those moments. For the times when you want to stay spiritually connected, but your energy is running low. Maybe the idea of casting a full ritual feels exhausting, or perhaps you’re just too tired to focus, yet your heart still aches for that thread of connection. I see you—and I’ve been there too.

So I’ve put together a little something to help you infuse a bit of magic into your life without draining the energy you do have. These are gentle, practical suggestions you can weave into your daily routine with minimal effort, but meaningful intention.

In the accompanying video, I dive deeper into these topics and share how I personally manage low-energy days while still honoring my practice. I speak honestly (allergy attacks and all—please forgive the sniffles!) because I want you to know this space is real, raw, and welcoming. 🌿

Whether it’s stirring intention into your tea, lighting a single candle, or simply speaking affirmations before bed, magic doesn’t have to be grand to be powerful. Even the smallest gestures can ripple out with deep spiritual meaning.

Come join me, dear ones, and let’s explore how we can still show up for ourselves and our practice—even when we’re tired. You are allowed to rest and be magical.

With all my warmth,
🌙 Starwatcher

 

POTENT PROTECTION OIL | Warding against evil and negative energies

(Actually this can be made into incense, a spray or even a candle but it’s good to make a oil of it to anoint yourself or other things. This recipe is also very good with protection against spirits and or malevolent entities, along with those who wish you harm/ill and or give negative vibes)

What you’ll need:

• Marjoram (This is a very powerful herb for overall protection. However don’t be surprise if your spirit friend/companion goes away for a bit due to this herb, it can make spirit communication a bit difficult.) I thank my grandmother (who is a native medicine women) for telling me this.
• Salt (For obvious reasons!)
• Frankincense essential oil or resin (Frankincense is considered to be holy and was said to be given from a Archangel)
• Willow or sage (both are very good for protection and protection against evil)
• A Carrier oil (or not if your making this into a loose incense)
• A container to put it all in

OPTIONAL THINGS:

• You can use Moon/Sun water instead of oil
• If your making it a loose mixture, place a crystal in it to keep it charged!
• You can place the mixture within sun or moon light to charge it or make it more potent
• If you don’t like the smell of Frankincense you can use Lavender, Peppermint, Dragon’s blood, Myrrh or Rose essential oil or resin.
• You can add the following herbs for more potency: Mandrake root, Lavender, Lemongrass, Rose, Basil, Wormwood, Bay, Sandalwood, Cedar, Pine, Cinnamon, Juniper/Juniper berries, Dill, rosemary. 

Directions: This is pretty self explanatory. You add everything into the bottle (BUT REMEMBER TO ADD YOUR INTENT ALSO!) I can’t stress this enough guys! You can add as much or as little as you want to your own mixtures! 

Hephaestus/Vulcan Correspondences

The info I collected was from reading, advices and personal strong gut feelings I got. I may or may not edit more if I find more info on him! :)

 

🔥 𝙲𝚘𝚛𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚙𝚘𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎𝚜 🔥

Zodiac: Libra?

Herbs: Cinnamon, Red clover, Peony

Stones: onyx, Red jasper, Zircon, Orange garnet, pyrite, lava rocks, Bismuth, Sun stone, black tourmaline, hematite,  Carnelian.

Colors: Red, black, white, brown, orange

Animals: Donkey and quail

Symbols: Anvil, Hammers and Tongs, Fire, Volcanoes, Axe. 

Offerings to Hephaestus: Milk, Beer, Cider, Copper, Bronze, Gold, Iron, Nails, Bolts, beads, tools (can be related to stone working or sculpting) Handmade items that you make. Instruction guides (maybe one you used to put together something you really like!) lighting a cigar (or not), Incense, Simply lighting a candle. Rustic items (like nails or tools). Braces or stretch bandages (because of him being disabled, also I thought stretch bandages could be used because of my mom when her knee cap would act up and she didn’t have a knee brace!)

NOTE: Thanks to someone mentioning it to me! You could possibly use a tool box as a secret altar. Or to place on a altar for him! :)

How to incorporate digital witchcraft into your practice

Digital-based witchcraft (one could also consider it technomancy) is where you can subtly do...well- witchcraft, and the fun part about it is the fact that you can get really crafty with it. It can be done by all levels of practitioners to beginners and to advance. Really allow yourself to be creative with it! Down below are some info that I thought i'd share with you all in regards to it, so it may spark your creative thoughts! 

Something I did not mention in the video or my grimoire is something my fiancé suggested to me. And that is using binary code for sigil work. Especially if you are someone who likes using numbers in your craft, this one might be a treat!

 

Amaymon correspondences and how to work with him

Recently my spirit friend that i've known since I was 8 within this current life time finally revealed himself to me and a beloved friend of mine that he was none other than Amaymon himself. I had my own spectulations on whether if he was Aamon or another. Considering when I was younger, I had called him Shadow, upon reaching the age of 13 or 14, he decided I address him as Amon.

After all this time, he decided to finally allow both me and her to know who truly is. He simply told us that there was a "particular" reason why he didn't want us to know his name, but thats not for here! (Sorry lol)

Anyways. I've come to the realization that not a lot of people know of this specific Prince/demon and after having him by my side after all these years (and quite possibly life times, still driving deeper into this aspect) but I feel like I can offer some good insight regarding him and my own experiences. Yes this is a mixture of UPGs, SPGs, and VPGs.

We will also get to his correspondences later down the road here!

Working with him: Amaymon isn't someone who will just go around randomly picking and trying to lure people to him. He has a complicated relationship with mortals I'd say. Very rarely will he work with people, and from what I experienced with him at such a young age, he will challenge you in very aggressive ways that will break you down. Similar to an experience I had with Abbadon who truly wrecked havoc on me (things are good now I promise! lol). He does this in a way to truly see if your worth his time, if you have what it takes to go beyond and if you are truly willing. You HAVE to earn his respect and show him that you are willing. He doesn't like to work with people who he knows damn well won't put in any effort to help themselves in all shapes and forms. And he will know if your being truthful or not. He always knows. 

He doesn't like quitters, he doesn't like those who keep wallowing in their own despair and pain. He hates when people allow their own inner turmoil to ruin themselves and will get very angry with you if you don't try to make a geuine effort to fix it and work on it. (I will discuss more in depth within a video on my youtube channel.)

If you are picked or drawn to work with him (and he accepts to work with you) from my own experience and seeing what he does, he does very well with shadow work, breaking down your walls to get to the core of things. He's very protective, possessive, he helps you to understand your own path and helping you along your own spiritual evolution. He will make you become more aware and even help you to become more aware of your own actions, words, thoughts etc. If he knows there is something bad, he will tell you. He always managed to tell me who is trust worthy and who is not. If he knows there is a lesson to be learned, he will rather... be vague and lie, just so that you can learn the lesson at hand. An example of this would be a coworker I thought I was friends with (and I asked him if I could trust her) to his response was "Yeah, you can. You guys seem great." and not much later, me and her got into a fight, that rather made us not like each other anymore. He told me "I might had lied. But you need to start realizing these things yourself and not always rely on me." A good way to describe his methods and ethics would be... Tough love. 

Making you face things that you don't want to but knowing you have to head on. He works very well with Lucifer, and ever since I grew up with them they are honestly best friends. They go hand in hand. They are very much polar opposites but work so well together. What Lucifer doesn't want to convey, Amaymon will brutally. Lucifer is more merciful, Amaymon doesn't show mercy. Sometimes however, the two get into fights. Fair warning, but none the less, they are best buds. Like brothers. Funny thing is, one is 3 inches taller while the other is 3 inches shorter. I'll let you guys figure that one out! :)

What to expect: He can come off as really mean, cold and rude, he doesn't hold his tongue back nor his words. Often times his words sting like a snake bite. (there is also the idea that Amaymon's breath is posionous and deadly. This to me is actually his words and how he speaks. Because his words can hurt and can break you down. He knows very well how to truly make someone fold and crush under his words alone.) He won't care about your feelings if he's trying to get something across that needs to be. He doesn't beat around the bush and so forth. His presence is intimidating and strong. He curses/swears a lot as well! He can be comical or strictly stern. It depends on who you are and what relationship you have with him. Often times you will most likely see him serious. He's like a brick wall when he's like this.

He loves to fight and never backs down from one. And that goes for most all different types, arguing, physically, astrally, etc. He doesn't lose easily either. I have however never seen him wield a weapon. He has always told me that it slows him down and he would rather use his hands that are tied to his own abilities. 

His rage is something else and very note worthy. You will know when you angered him or if he's upset with you and so forth. You can try and deny it but it grows as intense heat. Which is another thing to mention. He's very warm blooded/hot. And truly I mean it. He loves hot weather, he loves fire, he loves warmth. I've personally (in my experience) never seen him like the cold. His own domain that he allowed me to finally see through lucid dreaming was unbearablely hot! His castle was made from sand and his land was nothing but sand like the desert. And here he has wore his leather jacket without breaking a sweat... You heard me right. If you have ever been to Yuma Arizona or Phoenix Arizona... imagine that heat but more 10x more intense. 

How he looks: his appearance without a doubt, I'm sure will differentiate between each individual. However for me and my friend, he's muscular and has rich dark chocolate skin. His hair is short and changes from platinum blonde to a silver white. His hair is somewhat like a buzz cut but just slightly grown out more if that makes sense. 

His eyes range and are often either completely black, the whites of his eyes are black and then the actual pupils are a rich gold color of yellow, or his pupils are simply just a golden yellow that looks very similar to that of a snake.

He does have piercings, several at that and often times give the vibe of being rather Egyptian. I feel like this is very important to address with him. 

Back to our original topic, he has earrings and several piercings upon his face and ears and tongue. 

He is usually seen wearing his leather jackets, a simple clean look as he wears a chain necklace. (Either silver or gold), His shirt is gray or black and wears matching black jeans. With black boots. In his more formal outfit he looks like a prince, someone of great authority. His outfit is black and decorated with different golden and silver embellishments and accents. Almost looking similar to a military uniform as well. He has his hair slicked back as well and his crown matched with his outfit, again being gold and silver. I had drawn him for fun in the colors black and pink when I first saw him in his uniform because of the idea of him looking cute in it!

Correspondences

Name: Amaymon/Amaimon/Amoymon. 

Direction: He is considered the cardinal king of the south and at times associated with the east. He embodies the elements of summer but in a darker aspect. 

Element: Air and Fire

Scents: Hazel, Dragons blood, Drakkar (he LOVES this scent from my personal experiences),  frankincense, Pine, Musk, Agarwood, Patchouli, Cedar, Sandalwood, Leather, Tobacco, Oud, Amber, Benzoin, Myrrh, Cinnamon, Vampire's blood. Just really strong musky scents he loves and ones associated with earth too.

Days: I get that he is associated with Sunday and Tuesday but can be worked with on any day of the week.

Crystals: Onyx, Amethyst, citrine, gold, obsidian, yooperlite, black tourmaline, moldavite, tektite, malachite, Amazonite, Lapis Lazuli, Pyrite, Zebra stone. (I do believe he is fine with most yellow based stones as well and black stones. But he will guide you to ones he knows you will need to specifically work with him.)

Sacred Symbols: Reptiles of all kinds and sorts, specifically snakes though, Dragons, Warrior symbols, skulls, Pyramids, egyptian symbols and aesthetics, death symbols.

Planet: The black sun, earth, mars, neptune

Tarot: 8 of pentacles and the death card

Colors: Gold (mainly gold or yellow), black, silver, red, orange, gray and white, purple

Qlipha: Herab Seraphel, Thagirion

Offerings: Hazelnut based things, alcohol, coffee, tea, chocolate, incense, crystals, drawings, music, doing shadow work, standing up for yourself, fighting for your rights, working on yourself and becoming better. Not backing down from a fight and protecting something with strong determination. He appreciates more physical offerings in this sense versus more traditional offerings like food and drinks i've learned (however it may be different for each person)

What can he help with?: Shadow work (doing deep inner workings), learning to transmute energy, protection magic, doing curses and hexes, unblocking energy and removing blockages, grounding, connecting to earth, getting things up to speed, seeing beyond the veil, dream work, astral travel, communication and developing your skills, Death energies, divination, elemental magic, sex magic

Other info: He does like the arts and different mediums of it. He loves the band Five finger death punch and loves the song specifically Under and over it. Without a doubt I can always feel his presence no matter what when their music plays. This was one way I was able to get my good friend in contact with him! He also loves gold colors more but is ok with silver!